Moffie and Stabane: LGBT Community divided over the use of terms
In the black communities, the terms moffie and stabane, are not used in the context of respect. They are frequently utilized as the power to put someone down. Its rare to find occasions where they are employed in a positive manner. Despite this, there is quite a number of people who identify as Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual that accept to be referred to using such terms. But why allow an individual to call you using names that are meant to de-humanize you?. Well! their reasoning is that, these are names in their respective languages that describe who they are and do not feel ashamed owning them. They say that there are no other names in their languages that they might use, and when told that these terms carry negative ideas about the community and therefore should not be used but use the word 'gay' instead, they accuse the group of being too forward since they prefer English name over names in their languages. An invitation poster to 'Stabane And Friends' event. The...